What's the difference between feeling totally comfortable in your own skin, and feeling slightly out of place at a party? My theory: self love! Coaching at ESP is always profound, but today seemed to click on another level- it was like feeling months worth of small recognitions/puzzle pieces connect, producing a breath-taking picture of who I am- a recognition that produces immense joy. Now in my life joy used to find me when I: a)accomplished something b)learned something profound or c)someone loved me but tonight at a friend's birthday party I had the amazing experience of being more connected to myself than I have been, perhaps ever before. This was purely me connected to me; self love, focus, and joy radiating from the inside. While I don’t have a long-term study on this, tonight I ended up with two separate offers for dates and two more great exchanges with guys I adore. Self love = external love? We always talk about having the internal create the external effects is this that equation in action? Does loving yourself make you more attractive, even when you're not trying? Especially when you're not trying? While I’m not about to date all four of these lovely people, the recognition that by being myself I become more attractive to the people around me is a profound one- and fun too! By creating self- love we create love all around us- we see it in the trees, the lights, the air. We see it in the world, and perhaps, just perhaps the world will see it in us too. My suggestion- be the person you would fall in love with. It seems to be a path worth loving! Add Comment Ever notice how you can’t remember where your keys are when you’re stressed? (and maybe it’s getting harder to remember in general?!) The more frequently you activate your stress-response, the smaller your brain’s “hippocampus” becomes- a key area for forming explicit memories. Cortisol and related stress hormones weaken existing synaptic (brain) connections in the hippocampus and inhibit new ones! Stress stops new neurons from being formed in the hippocampus and as new memories rely on new neurons in the hippocampus, the more stress we foster, the harder it is to form new memories. Now... what did I have for lunch??? Take a Bite out of Stress! 05/12/2010
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